Saying 'yes'

My husband and I got a gift card for a photo shoot at an artsy studio. They create interesting arrangements of photos on canvas and other media for your wall. My initial reaction was to say, 'no, thanks' and let the gift card quietly expire. My husband thought it could be fun, plus it was free. Then I remembered advise from the Improv book I'm reading, which advises saying yes to suggestions and not 'blocking' your partner (not only does it make for better Improv shows, but it makes for a more interesting life, Keith Johnstone says). So, this weekend we went to take the photos; next weekend we go back to look at the results. Despite my misgivings about my un-photogenic-ness and what the photographer or camera may pick up in terms of lingering tension or awkwardness in our relationship, it was actually fun. I found I was very attracted to my husband watching him in shirt and coat (and pants, obviously) with his glass of scotch, being posed in 'Mad Men-style' lighting. He made flattering comments about my body, which leads me to think he was having a similar experience, when it was my turn. Then we did some sweet and silly couples shots. If these pictures turn out, and if we continue to work things out (as we seem to be doing at the moment), then they could be a really good memento our survival as a couple.